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Day 88: what are your views upon sex before marriage

Quite “modern” (?!) I would say. When it happens it’s happen. It’s not bad but also not a thing what you’ve to do. Sometimes you’ve the opportunity and sometimes the situation don’t come or whatever. I find it in this case also every time so stupid to judge a person, if he/she had it or not. It is such a weird/stupid question for me if a person would ask me that in my real life. And it’ get even worse, when the person think he/she thinks what is right or wrong for a person in this case. Why do we want to create rules in such unnecessary topics ? And why do you even would care ? I doesn’t make a person a better or a bad person. Just let the persons do what they want, and let them do what they think it’s right.  

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Day 52: what is the most inspirational thing you’ve ever heard

Such general question are always hard to anwser D:. So I just take the one. that comes right now into my mind:

“But why you have so many doubts ? We are your best friends, that is all what matters.”

I am everytime such a person, who like to overthink every little tiny thing in my life. Should I do that ? Should tell him/her ? But often I’ve had the anwser already in my mind. Why do you have so many doubts ? It is you, don’t try to be someone else, because maybe someone likes you more if you don’t say some few things. The ones, who are your best friends and stuff will accpet it, and the other ones … who cares ;).

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Day 35: words you live by, why do you like them

 

First of all I should say, that I actually don’t have such sentences or words I live by. I just live my life like I want. But here and there you read such sentences on a sticker, books or in the internet where I could agree with, which I now choose to show you. Hope you understand that what i mean ^^”. 

Everything happens for a reason. 

I believe that all in the world or in your life happens for a reason, even the bad things or the things you don’t want to do. When you are right now in such a bad mood situation, you maybe don’t like these words and think they are stupid. Why does something stupid like that happens to me ? Maybe you don’t understand it right now, but after a time it will make sense. 

 Be yourself

That thing with “be yourself” I had very often in my challenges :´D. But it is so true and so I will list it again. Don’t try/pretend to be someone else. You shouldn’t be sad about how you look or how you are. It’s all okay. Just be yourself ~ 

 

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Day 12: the best advice you’ve ever heard, or ever been given

Oh nice, the match for day 11 ^^. Hmn … but i think that this questions with the advices aren’t so easy. I think such advices, which contain to improve my self-esteem are quite good advices for me. Again, i am not a person, which has so much self-esteem and in some situation i would often try to back down. But when you get from a good friend, or your family the advice just to do it, be yourself and such things, i do way more things :D. Also this sentence form day 10, to “be yourself”, is for me a very good advice. Right now, i can’t even remember, if i have got such advice, but i think … yeah for sure i got this advice at some moments. Maybe this advice is the “normal one” and also in the situation so stupid, because it maybe doesn’t helped you. But when you are yourself, you shouldn’t be ashamed for the things you do. When the other ones can’t accept you, then there often not worth it, to talk with them or to be friend with this person. Maybe i have heard other, quite better advices, but right now this is just that, what comes into my mind :).

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Day 10: what you think when you hear the words “be yourself”

Right now i would say: yeah, that is right. You just have to be yourself. Nothing can you do better. Don’t try to be another person, because you think, it is stupid to be yourself. You are great like hell and when you are just yourself, i think it is very easy to do things. But this is just this one opinion right now. When i would be in another situation, where i don’t know what to do or just over think every thing that could happen or ask friends and family what i could do in a specific situation the answer is: “be yourself”. And at the most time, this isn’t the best answer for you, when you hear this words. Maybe i just can tell for my experiences, but i am in such situations very squirrelly (can you say that word ? P:). I just want to have everything perfect, but than normally i just overrate things, and then it doesn’t go off quite good >.>. And in the end i have just to be myself: smart, not so squirrelly, not so much excited. All in all i try this every time, but often i do the same mistake again and again … We want all the time, that what we don’t have or just to be someone else. But i think we all should be more times ourself :3.

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